Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Moments... to Realize..

So I want to know about all moments in people's life were they realize they have meet the person you know you want to spend the rest of your life with. I am more than certain that I am with the most important person in my life.. I love my Husband, HE is my best friend.. I love Chris.. He proposed to me Feb.1 because he chose me to be with for the rest of his life.. So I have a friend that just got engaged.. no names.. She is engaged to a guy that personal I think could change and he just might have.. But I don't know.. I want to believe it but I want to also be happy for this friend cause she surely is happy but this guy she says she wants to spend the rest of her life I don't know if she is for sure in control of the situation and is for certain that he has change for the better.. She has had so many friends abandon her and use her. She also has had friends that have made her old fiance's to cheat on her with them.. I honestly can say I have never done this... I can say I am one of the friends that have been there for her through thick and then.. She is one of my people I can go to for anything.. She say's I am one of those people in her life.. I just want to know for sure for her safety that she is making the right decision for her son also.. she is a great mother and woman.. I hope that this guy she is engaged with is the man that will fill all those gaps in her life. Well.. For now that is all I can say until I gather for some more information on this guy...

1 comment:

  1. Haha, I've known Danny was the one since we were little, I was just too shy to ever say anything to him until we grew up! Apparently he was the same way too, always dreamed of coming over and sweeping me off my feet, but was too scared to do it. I'm just glad I finally got the guts up to come ask him out!

    For your friend, all you can do is pray and help her through whatever she goes through if he doesn't do right. We on the outside can see things that the person in the relationship cannot, but all we can do is tell them what we see and hope they can eventually see it themselves and either get out of the relationship or make some boundaries to get it on track. Remember when I was with Justin? EVERYONE kept telling me how horrible he was, but I was too "in love", I couldn't see it for myself until way later on. I hope your friend can see who her guy really is before it's too late, hopefully he is a good guy though and she doesn't have to worry!

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