Being Mommy means being the BAD GUY!!

Being a mom is awesome ... Until you hear those words.. "Mommy your mean" ... "Daddy your mean"... Never did I get a manual that told me I was my kids best friend. I am my child's parent. I am here to care for them, provide for them and love them unconditionally every single day ... I have so that to my best ability.. (Trust me 2 boys it's hard not to have our wrestling matches)

Being a parent is hard work .. Where was that manual that says think twice or see what is like before having kids... (Not out there) .. No I don't have me time anymore.. Does that even exist.. No I don't get to go to the bathroom or take a bath in peace. No the toys aren't picked up and put away. But what can I saw my kids are alive and we have made it through another day.

Many days come and so many days have gone by. Dusten is 6 years old.. (What shut up how can that be)... Owen will be 4 and that's not cool because he hates I call him my baby.. Where has the time gone, how do we allow things consume us and how come I can't turn down how fast life passes us by...

We can't change how life is or how we have to be mean cop or nice cop. But I can be the best darn Mommy I can possibly be to my boys. Trust me I still want my me time and my relaxation time but do I want to miss a minute of my kids life heck no.. But I deal because I love my life every interrupted pee break, relaxing bath and that song I haven't heard in a while because I have to stop a fight in the car. 

Life just would be right with out my Husband and boys.. So yes Mommy is mean but mommy also would give you the world hand over if she could also if she felt that's what you required. Trust me they deserve the best just not so much they don't appreciate what all the world has to give us....